Who Do I Coach?

I coach people who feel personally or professionally stuck and want support in moving towards greater fulfillment.

Many of my clients seek enhanced career satisfaction, whether establishing their careers or making changes at any stage of life. 

Clients focused on their professional lives often show up for coaching because they don’t feel fulfilled at work, know their career direction, or they struggle to make their way in a challenging economy. Others know full well what they want but feel constrained by fear or other factors to move in new directions. Many feel out of alignment with their workplace or social culture or perceive that they simply don't fit a traditional or linear life path (don't worry, I'm going to help you embrace that as a gift!) By the time they show up to explore coaching, people often feel frustrated, despairing, or self-critical. Coaching supports them in moving through and beyond the painful state of constrained self-expression, and towards lives and work that align with their deepest values and dreams.

Other people arrive with goals and questions about their relationships, finances, an area of their physical environment they want to bring into order and beauty, or are struggling to make a pivotal life decision. Elements of our lives are connected, so if we are stuck in one significant area, that often ripples out to impact, well, everything. Some of my clients show up feeling fundamentally, holistically stuck and struggle to feel connected with knowing what they want, to make decisions or commitments, and to trust themselves.

Finally, because we're interdependent creatures and live in dynamic systems (ecological, social, political, economic, etc...) our individual lives are embedded in bigger patterns, forces, and currents that expand far beyond our own influence. Sometimes coaching conversations validate the impact of systemic barriers, oppressions, and privileges on our personal experiences. Examining our lives through such a lens can sometimes free us up from limiting narratives we've dug ourselves into. That is, instead of a tendency to put all kinds of blame - or praise - on our individuals merits and shortcomings, we can better acknowledge and skilfully navigate the contexts in which we live.

Whatever the primary area of focus, coaching helps people build or re-build faith in themselves, their resourcefulness and gifts, and their powerful capacity to get unstuck and create positive change.

I’ve appreciated Nicola’s holistic life view and her support in the process of clarifying my interests and career focus. Coaching has helped me become more optimistic and relaxed about where I’m at in my life now and where I’m going.
— A.M, Past Client, Recent Undergrad & Political Administrator

How Does Coaching Work?

I listen deeply, facilitate powerful conversations, and hold faith in clients.

I offer thoughtful questions to evoke client insight and creativity.

I support clients to generate reflective and action-oriented homework between sessions which invite them to practice new ways of being and doing in their lives.

I provide inspiring and practical tools, resources, models, and stories to support client’s next steps.

I bring compassion to each individual’s journey, and honor the courage required to create and navigate change.

I encourage a holistic understanding of each client, and recognize that we are all whole people with minds, bodies, hearts, and spirits/souls.  I work from that belief that we are all inter-connected, while living in particular family and cultural contexts, from diverse social locations.

I respect that clients bring the expertise on their lives and what they want. My role is to partner with them and contribute expertise to facilitate their process and success.

I met with my life coach today. And let me tell you, nothing feels better than sitting down with someone whose strengths are empathy, resourcefulness and genuine enthusiasm. I always feel like a million bucks after a session.
— C.G., Past Client, Entrepreneur & Communications

Why Does This Approach Work?

I believe my approach works because I’ve witnessed it so consistently.

The coaching process facilitates clients gaining clarity, awareness, and confidence, and these states of being then quite naturally catalyze effective action- often with greater ease than people anticipate.

Clients report that coaching often yields transformation, deeper self-awareness and more meaningful gains than they hoped for.

My services are unique, customized, and responsive to the individual. I don’t provide a pre-planned package model of service.

I bring my intuition and respect for the body to the coaching relationship, well aware that we live in a dominant culture that places great value on the intellect. My dance and therapeutic background guides me to honor the body’s wisdom, which can complement the mind's gifts.  I often invite clients to slow down and sense and listen to their bodies in order to better connect with and understand their instincts and inner guidance systems.

During consultation or exploratory sessions, along with assessing relationship fit, I help people determine their readiness. Change, while exciting, requires time, energy, and work.  As such, once we have assessed the scope of the goals and the depth of the issues at hand, I do my best to ensure that a prospective client is aware of what the process ahead may entail.

This work is my passion, and I am honored and privileged to partner with people as they grapple with their challenges and nurture their strengths and capacities.

Nicola’s ability to recall previous comments, situations, and reactions all contribute to a pattern of how she sees the whole person: their talents, desires, goals, wishes, and dreams. Nicola has a rare talent for deep listening.
— A.C., Past Client, Media & Public Relations

What are the Logistics? What Can You Expect?

  • After a free 60-minute consultation, clients embark on two to three Discovery Sessions.

  • During Discovery Sessions, we determine and distill your coaching goals, clarify mutual expectations, and ensure relationship 'fit.'

  • Following Discovery Sessions, we set a contract to support your intentions.

  • Coaching appointments are one hour in length.

  • People typically book five to ten more sessions on a bi-weekly basis.

  • The average length of a coaching journey is four to six months.

  • Payment is on a per-session basis, priced at $115/hour.